Friday, August 08, 2008
Gentlemen and Dating - Part 1
What is the right combination of factors that would make a man act more like an “animal” rather than a gentleman on dates?
What is the right combination of factors that would make a man act more like an ‘animal’ rather than a gentleman on dates? If a woman, straight out lets a guy know there are certain ‘rules’ for dating her, then many potential dates would never happen. I have a female friend. When a guy would ask her out on a date for dinner, she would tell him that sounded good, but she needed to know that she wouldn’t have sex because of a date. If he were interested in her for more than sex, then he would continue to pursue her. If he wanted more, than she would not hear from him again.
Most people have their shares of men who wanted something for something. Even at work, she became friendly with a boss who soon was telling her that she could go very far with the job, and then he showed up at her apartment door. She talked to him, at the door, but did not let him come in. He became very hardnosed toward her after that but he still did not get to first base. She did eventually transfer out of that position so She didn’t have to be subjected to him and his ‘come-ons
Of course men want to have sex whenever and wherever they can, but that does not mean that the woman has to agree. Different sizes or shapes of women don’t make a man more or less ready, willing and eager to have sex. Whether you are shapely or not, your body type and personality attracts certain kinds of guys. If you have already set the game rules, then you shouldn’t need to worry about the man trying to get his share of your desserts after dinner and a movie.